In this blog, I share 4 reasons why reading books with adopted children can help with the attachment process, and recommend 7 brilliant books that feature adopted children as main characters.
My experience
As a mum to three adopted children, I know the power of books.
When children are adopted, they have often been through a turbulent time, lacked a steady and secure reliable adult, and missed out on the routines that many of us consider part and parcel of family life. Many are often in a state of high alert, wondering what will happen next.
Forging bonds at this time is crucial. It’s not always easy, but sharing books can help.
4 reasons why reading books with adopted children can help with the attachment process
1 Books help you to be present
Having a present adult is the key to all children’s well-being. And sharing books is a fantastic way to be present.
2 Books can help you to bond
Books are a fabulous source of fun, encouraging children to unwind. They can help you to establish a routine of snuggles and stories – a cosy and safe space where children can share feelings, giggle, ask questions, and relax.
They are a great tool to help your child form positive attachments with you.
3 Book characters can validate your child’s emotions
Fictional characters can provide a brilliant, non-intense way to explore emotions and normalise feelings. Plus, if you pretended to struggle on words, you can show your child that it’s okay to make mistakes.
4 Books with positive representation can help children to feel secure
Sharing stories that represent your child helps them to understand they are not alone in their experiences, and feel secure in their identity.
7 amazing books that feature adopted children as main characters
1. The Accidental Diary Of B.U.G. by Jen Carney

In this brilliantly illustrated comedy diary-style series for readers 7+, a witty and observant 10-year-old (incidentally adopted as a baby) navigates the unique ups and downs of school and family life when a new girl joins her class.
Perfect for normalising adoption, and for children who love an immersive laugh-out-loud reading experience.
Find out more on this page of my website
2. The Last Firefox by Lee Newbery, illustrated by Laura Catalan

In this fantasy book for readers 8+, the main character, Charlie Challinor (a boy who was adopted by his two dads) becomes the guardian of a furry firefox cub.
Perfect for young fans of fantasy.
Find out more on this website
3. The Day My School Got Famous by Jen Carney

In this adventure comedy for readers 8+, an unexploded WW2 bomb is discovered under the school playground as Nile awaits his kinship adoption.
Perfect for fans of comic strips and school-based comedies.
Find out more on this page of my website
4. Nate Yu’s Blast From The Past by Maisie Chan

In this ghost story for readers 9+, Nate (transracially adopted by two mums) discovers Jirou – a man who has been trapped as a ghost within a dragon engraving since WW1.
Perfect for fans of historical fiction.
Find out more on Masie’s website
5. The Dad Trap by Ian Eagleton

A modern-day take on The Parent Trap (two dads dating) in which the adoption process is explored through Dad’s letters and memories.
Perfect for readers 10+
Find out more on this website
6. The Day My Brother Got Famous

In this comedy adventure for 8+, the main character (Ferris) supports his foster brother (Arthur) to achieve his dream of going into space whilst also preparing to find out if he is about to becoming a forever brother to his long-term foster sister via adoption.
Perfect for space fans and children who like books filled with comic strips
Find out more on this page of my website
7. A Sister Like You by Sarah Hagger-Holt

In this heart-warming, dual-narrative, coming-of-age story, two sisters adopted by different families meet each other unexpectedly.
Perfect for readers 10+ who like stories set in schools
Find out more on Sarah’s website
A note about books that feature adopted children
As both a mum and an author, I know that when a child sees a version of themselves in an uplifting book, they feel validated and their self-confidence improves. It’s one of the main reasons I write comedies that reflect diverse family structures.

Plus, there’s robust evidence to prove that representation is the key to successful reading for pleasure – and, as you may know, reading for pleasure from an early age can have a massive impact on life-chances and wellbeing (something, as adopters, we always want to encourage).
Positive Representation of adopted children in books
It’s certainly not one size fits all when it comes to representing adopted children, and never under-estimate the value of sharing books that feature adopted children where a loving adoptive family is the setting for the story as opposed to the main focus of the plot. It’s a brilliant normaliser.
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I’m posting this blog just ahead of National Adoption week 2026.
There are children all over the country who need a lifelong family.
If you’re looking into becoming an adoptive parent, YOU CAN ADOPT (a nationwide adopter recruitment campaign which aims to raise awareness of adoption and bust eligibility myths) provide a search tool for finding an agency near where you live:




































